Is ignoring Cyber Stalkers always the best course of action?

I used to believe so but now I know that it depends on the circumstances.  Certainly it true for Troll in the initial stages when they are trying to bait you but once a sociopathic cyberstalker has you in their sights they are like bull dog unable to release you from the jaws. 

In such cases you may need to fight fire with fire.  This does not mean stalking them back but one thing I have learned is they hate to be exposed for what they really are. 

I have been engaging the known cyber stalker Evan Iliadis for the past couple of months after trying to ignore him for almost five years and with the help of a group of his other victims we are winning. 

I can see that learning how to make complaints the correct way would be a stumbling block to many wanting to complain about malicious and false material posted about them on the Internet.

This past two months will not be wasted.  The stuff I am learning will be used in my internetSOS service to help others combat Cyber stalkers.

Reporting Impersonation and fake sites

A common technique of Cyber Stalkers is setting up fake and impersonation sites.

This is also one easiest things to report.  I have been reporting the fakes sites of my internet stalker Evan Iliadis and so far about 50% of them have been removed.  While this is a win I actually feel that 100% should have been removed and will continue fighting for that.

In the future my cyber stalker might work out how to avoid getting sites removed by avoiding direct impersonation but now we have documented evidence that demonstrates real harassment way beyond any claim to believe he is engaged in publishing information in the public interest.  In fact his blogs contain so much trivial and personal attacks totally unrelated to the stated purpose of his blog that he already did not have a legal foot to stand on.

The fake network of sites are like nails in his coffin.  Evan Iliadis is finished but he does not yet realise it.    But there are signs he is getting scared.  More on that later

See the list i have compiled of his fake and impersonation sites.

Evan Iliadis Fake Impersonation Sites

I have added a note at the bottom to each site / profile that has already been removed

The Positive Side For Me To Being A Cyber Stalking Victim

As strange as it will sound I have found a positive side to being Cyber stalked and having the most disgusting lies made about me.  Before this happened I valued my good name and reputation.  Not a single blemish or aspersion had been cast upon my name. 

When the stalking started I was horrified and challenged his allegations but nothing I did could satisfy or appease my stalker.  What I did not realize at the time that the allegations demanding a response or answers were not serious. He would never be satisfied because it was all a game to him. 

I eventually just ignored him completely.  Those that knew me knew that 99% of what he said about me was not true.  I also realized that in reality no one else really cared.  We are all too busy with our real lives.  I just got on with mine. 

My stalker continued with his life also which was stalking.  He found new victims and over five years has probably targeted in excess of fifty people.  That is just a guess because I never bother reading many blogs.  He probably has around fifty blogs using the free Google blogger network but not all in his name, he uses many fake names.

After five years I am immune to his blogs.  I can view them and laugh at them. I know any intelligent person looking at them will see them for what they are, the ranting and raving of a nut case.

What he has printed about me is incredible. They are amazing and disgusting allegations that defy belief. I guess his writing does appeal to those of low intelligence that love gossip and dirt. Ultimately they are reflection of my stalker himself.

For me this has been a liberating experience.  I have learnt not to care too much about what others think about me.  As I said those that know me already know how false his allegations all are.  Others that view them should be able to work out what he is about just by reading his blog and if they can’t they are not the type of people I care about anyway.

Ironically I have embarked on producing an online resource for Internet safety and privacy called internetSOS and cover Cyber Stalking and harassment.  Having first hand experience means that I am able to provide excellent information on the topic.